Often, you resemble your parent or have similarities with your grandparents. Many would say that this is perfectly normal, as you are descended from them. But similarities don’t just stop at face or height or shape or even skin or hair. The similarities are a presence that goes right down to the same family or couple history; separation from one’s spouse; back to square one economically, back to dependence on the family; illness and so on.
It can even go as far as ending your life in disaster, accident or assassination.
Many would say that these things happen, but when they present themselves in your life, as they did in the lives of those who came before you and those who came before you 3, 4 or even several generations ago, they’re no longer just things that happen, but they become links, presences that don’t go away and manifest themselves from parent to child and so on.
When you’re in these situations, you’re controlled by presences, and these presences lead you down the same path as those who came before you, and that’s not normal. As a result, your family life looks the same and doesn’t change, and nobody says to themselves, “This has got to change”. Here’s the phrase you should start putting in front of your family life: “This has got to change”, or “I want this to change”.
In this way, you’ll begin to experience something else that will eventually not only reduce the action of its presence, but will eventually take its place and become the new presence.